Are you a reaction?

Life is all about action and reaction.

So are you taking action or simply reacting to everything around you and what do you want your life to look like?

My life used to be a series of reactions. I would go from one drama to another, navigating the best I could from one to the next. Between work and the kids and the husband and the family, it was all I could do some days to stay afloat.

Guess what happened?

I got exhausted. It is very tiring putting out fire after fire only to see the next fire and put that one out. With little or no appreciation.

The reaction comes from the belief that people will do one thing or another if I do not do this or that. I wanted to be the person for everyone. In the end I lost  myself.  And one day I woke up wondering where my life had gone.

So how do you get out of this cycle?

You take the “re” out of reaction. It is time to take action. To seriously look at your life and take some action that will support your vision of your life, the bigger picture of life.

I made a plan. I knew my life was going to be dedicated to helping people. I knew that I was going to create a company where helping people help people was the main focus. So I took courses that supported that, I read books that created that end. I started small and I am now doing that full time.

In essence I stopped reacting to the fires going on around me. I handled my stuff and got on with my life. What I began to realize is that people where I worked at the time were not going to remember me doing what I was doing, in fact they probably forgot about me the next week.

I took my life back.

I can remember watching someone close to me work hard for 20+ years in his company, so proud of the fact that he had been in business that long, have a hard time returning a phone call I made to him or would cut the conversation short because he was soooo busy. Several months later he ended up divorcing his wife of 20+ years, closing his business, and having little to show monetarily for 26 years of his life.

The lesson for me was simple. Stop reacting in your life. Live your life. If you are so busy doing what you do not like, you will end up in this so situation. You will create it.

So if you are going to create something, create something that is what you really want. Create a life that makes sense to you. Start doing what you love to do for that is your purpose.

Start with a piece of paper and at the top write down, “My vision”  At 80 years old what are you going to be excited about, what are you going to be proud of, what is going to be the highlight of this life, what am I excited to learn in this lifetime.

And then in the next 3 days take a step towards it.  If it is family, make a date with them. My vision is to have my family around me when I am 80 so that meant I needed to have a relationship with them now. Working 16 hours a day was not going to support relationship building.

If having abundance is the key to your vision, then do what is necessary to be aware of, to understand, and the know the laws abundance and takes steps to create it.

If travelling the world is part of your vision, book a trip somewhere, even to someplace 25 miles away.

Write down ten steps to creating the vision you want and then begin executing.

In other words take steps to create the life you want now. One step at a time. abundance book or the Cornerstone. All of these courses are designed to create a life with action not

For information on how to create a balanced life check out our page on coaching, the Abundance Book, or the Cornerstone and the up coming Hypnosis and Coaching as a Career.

At YOU Seminars we are offering a course in abundance in July.

Many of you have asked me why?

The answer to that is quite simple. If you want to start momentum in being aware of and understanding abundance, the time to start is now.

If you are looking to have a great fall, reap great rewards in the harvest time of year, now is the time to start. Just like if we were in the fall, I would ask that you start planning for New Years now, in the fall.

If you are looking for the consciousness of cause which is a spiritual journey compared to the consciousness of effect which is a materialistic journey, this is the course for you.

So what does this forty day program entail and who will it benefit?

  • It will benefit anyone who really wants to be aware and understand wealth.
  • Included are 40 days of online mediations sent to your inbox
  • 6 Wealth Building Mastermind and Meditation Evenings both in Abbotsford and Coquitlam and online

Will it matter the religion I practice?

  • All religions including atheism can benefit from the course.

What is the prerequisite?

  • A willingness to understand wealth from the inside out

Why would you take a class like this?

  • If you are tired of having no time to do anything but work, this is the class for you
  • If you are tired of having no money at the end of the month, this is the class for you
  • If you are not doing what you love to do, this is the class for you.
  • If you are tired of not making money doing what you love to do, this is the class for you.
  • If you think money is not for spiritual people, this is the class for you.

I guarantee that you will have a different thought process on money and wealth then you have ever had in your life.

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We want more money, more time and more time. and yet we do everything to not achieve it.

In fact when I watch people I observe a lot of running to the exact opposite.

Instead of accumulating wealth we live in a society of fulfill me now, of immediate gratification.

Instead of having time, the quality time, we fill up our days with things that we have to do and with people and jobs we really do not like.

Instead of creating peace, we argue with our demands of being right, of being liked, and of being alone.

We spend 90 % of our time trying to be something that is directly opposite to what the real us wants us to be.

So how do we get there?

We start by realizing that the real Us, the higher self, the higher part of you is much more powerful than the egoic part of you that demands satisfaction, that demands that you are liked, that demands that you are right.

And we start by getting quiet in listening that abundance is ours when we being to listen to the reality of us, the higher part of you. Meditation, hypnosis, prayer and walking in nature all have the ability when we use them properly to support the reality of you in coming to the forefront.

Take a few moments today to spend time in nature and realize that the trees in the forest do not judge themselves for being too skinny, too tall, too fat, for not having enough leaves or too many. They simply are.

To learn more about the Abundance that within you, please go to Abundance Book



New Framework

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Mythology Framework

There’s only one man I’ve ever called a coward, and that’s Brian Doyle Murray. No, what I’m calling you is a television actor. No… but I’d like to be asked! I’m afraid I just blue myself. No… but I’d like to be asked! What’s Spanish for “I know you speak English?” Now, when you do this without getting punched in the chest, you’ll have more fun.

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